If you are accused of sexual assault, the first days decide more than most people realise: say nothing to police about the allegation, keep every message, and retain an experienced sexual-offence defence firm before you do anything else. The seven steps below explain why, and what the law of consent, private records and credibility means for your defence. For the charge itself, the penalties and the full list of defences, see our sexual assault defence overview.

Being accused of sexual assault turns your world upside down. The shock, fear, and uncertainty can be paralyzing — and in that state, instinct leads to devastating mistakes. The first hours and days after an accusation are often the most consequential. What you do, and what you don't do, shapes the entire trajectory of your defence.

This article is not a substitute for legal advice about your specific situation. Think of it as a briefing from a defence lawyer's perspective — a strategic guide covering seven steps you need to take immediately. Your freedom, your reputation, and your future are at stake.

At Daniel Brown Law, our Toronto criminal defence lawyers are recognized nationally for trial and appellate excellence. We act immediately, protect clients at bail, and build evidence-driven defences in sexual offence prosecutions.

Your first move
Say nothingBeyond identifying yourself, until you have legal advice
The charge
Criminal Code s. 271Up to 10 years on indictment; 14 if the complainant is under 16
Consent
At the timeJudged from the complainant’s state of mind, s. 273.1(1.1)
How long it takes
Months to over a yearDisclosure, pre-trial applications, then trial

What should you do if you are accused of sexual assault?

Seven steps, in the order they usually matter. Each one is explained in full below.

1. Stay silentSay nothing to police about the allegation. Ask for a lawyer, then stop talking.Protects: your credibility
2. Preserve, don’t purgeKeep every text, email, call log and social media message. Delete nothing.Protects: your evidence
3. Retain a defence firm nowBail, disclosure and trial applications all start early — some need 60 days’ notice.Protects: your options
4. Know the law of consentConsent is the complainant’s voluntary agreement, present at the time of the activity.Decides: most cases
5. Build it on evidenceRecords applications, section 276 and expert evidence — not just your word.Builds: reasonable doubt
6. Prepare for a long processBail, disclosure, pre-trial applications, then a trial that can run days or weeks.Expect: months, not weeks
7. Credibility is not reliabilityAn honest witness can still be wrong. The law also forbids reasoning from myths.Tests: the account

Step 1 of 7

1) Exercise Your Right to Silence — Completely and Without Exception

The first step is absolute: say nothing to police about the allegations. When stopped or arrested, give your name and date of birth — police need to confirm who you are before they can release you. Beyond that, stay silent. This is not just a right — it is your most powerful protection. You also have the right, under section 10(b) of the Charter, to retain and instruct a lawyer without delay and to be told of that right.

The "Innocence" Myth

Many accused, particularly those who are innocent, feel the urge to explain themselves. The thinking is understandable: If I just tell them the truth, this will be cleared up. It won't. Under the stress of an interrogation, memory falters. You may get a date wrong, misremember a sequence of events, or leave out a detail that seems minor. When the Crown later compares your statement against other evidence, those innocent mistakes get framed as deliberate lies, damaging your credibility before a judge or jury.

How Statements Can Backfire

A "statement" is not just a formal recorded interview. It includes any communication you have with police while in custody — casual small talk included. Officers are trained to elicit information informally. Everything you say can be documented and used against you.

Exculpatory statements carry risk, not protection. If you deny the allegation, your lawyer generally cannot use that denial as evidence of innocence at trial — but the Crown can use it against you. Any inconsistency between what you told police and what you later testify to will be used to attack your credibility. If the statement contains details that turn out to be wrong, even on minor points, the Crown will argue it shows an attempt to mislead.

You hand the Crown your playbook. Describing your version of events or disclosing a potential defence before trial lets the prosecution prepare specifically to dismantle it — finding witnesses to contradict your account and tailoring their strategy accordingly.

Police do not have to stop asking. Saying you want to remain silent does not end an interview. The Supreme Court of Canada held in R v Singh, 2007 SCC 48, that police are not required to stop questioning a detained person who says they do not wish to talk. The questions can keep coming; your job is to keep not answering them.

Complete silence is generally more effective than repeating "on the advice of counsel, I remain silent." It is uncomfortable, but it is your best shield.

Action: Politely state that you wish to speak to a lawyer and will not answer questions. Then call us: (416) 297-7200.

Step 2 of 7

2) Preserve, Don't Purge — Your Digital Life Is Critical Evidence

After an accusation, the instinct to delete all traces of the complainant is understandable. Don't. Your digital records are a vital source of potential defence evidence, and one of the first things a defence lawyer will do is secure them.

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What to Preserve

  • Voicemails
  • Text messages (SMS, iMessage, WhatsApp, etc.)
  • Emails
  • Call records from your phone provider
  • Social media conversations (Facebook Messenger, Instagram DMs, Snapchat, etc.) between you and the complainant
  • Any relevant posts or communications between the complainant and others that you have access to or knowledge of

Why This Matters

These records can demonstrate the nature and tone of your relationship, show a pattern of consensual communication, or contain statements that contradict the allegation. Erasing them is like destroying evidence that could prove your innocence. Forensic recovery of deleted data is possible but not guaranteed — some material is gone for good once deleted.

Public profiles on Facebook, X, and Instagram can also yield evidence. Lawyers know where to look and how to preserve it in a format admissible at trial.

Keeping a record is not the same as being free to use it. If a message or document contains the complainant’s private information, using it at trial can require a judge’s ruling first — see step 5.

Action: Stop posting about the case. Back up all devices. Forward materials to your lawyer through secure channels.

Step 3 of 7

3) Retain an Experienced Sexual Offence Defence Firm — Immediately

The defence starts long before the first court date. What police are told, what conditions of release you agree to, what evidence is secured and which applications will be needed at trial are all decided early — and several of those applications have to be filed at least 60 days before they are heard.

Defending a sexual assault allegation requires command of a technically demanding body of law, including:

  • The precise mental element (mens rea) for sexual offences
  • Search and seizure rules and Charter remedies
  • Publication ban applications
  • Special protections for witnesses
  • The technical rules for accessing private records and prior sexual history evidence

Many criminal lawyers lack the depth needed to use these rules effectively. An experienced sexual-offence defence lawyer lives in this area of law. They know the legislation, the current appellate jurisprudence, and the strategies that actually work.

Representing yourself has a specific cost here. In a sexual offence case, if the prosecutor or the complainant applies, the judge must order that you not cross-examine the complainant personally unless the proper administration of justice requires it, and appoints a lawyer to do it instead (Criminal Code s. 486.3(2)). The most important part of your trial would be conducted by someone who did not prepare your case.

Action: Speak to our sexual assault defence team now. See our Sexual Assault Defence page and our Appeals practice.

Step 4 of 7

4) Understand That "Consent" Has a Strict Legal Definition

In most sexual assault cases, the central issue is consent. The legal definition under Canadian law is often quite different from everyday understanding, and the entire case can turn on whether the Crown proves — beyond a reasonable doubt — the absence of consent as the law defines it.

Under Canadian law, consent is the voluntary agreement of the complainant to engage in the specific sexual activity in question. It must be present at the time the sexual activity takes place (Criminal Code s. 273.1(1) and (1.1)).

Consent is subjective

What matters is what was actually in the complainant's mind at the time the activity occurred — not what a reasonable person might have inferred, and not what the accused believed. The complainant's internal state governs. The Supreme Court of Canada set this out in R v Ewanchuk, [1999] 1 SCR 330. The complainant’s account is still tested against all the evidence, including their words and conduct before and during the incident.

There is no implied consent

Silence, passivity, or ambiguous conduct does not mean yes. Ewanchuk rejected any defence of implied consent, and believing that silence or passivity is consent is a mistake of law, not a defence. Consent must be active and affirmative: a belief in consent is no defence unless there is evidence the complainant’s agreement was affirmatively expressed by words or actively expressed by conduct (s. 273.2(c)).

Incapacity eliminates consent

A person cannot legally consent if unconscious or so intoxicated that they lack capacity to understand and agree to the activity. Prior consent given while sober ends once capacity is lost. In R v J.A., 2011 SCC 28, the Supreme Court held that consent requires a conscious, operating mind throughout, so agreement given in advance does not cover activity while the person is unconscious.

The "reasonable steps" requirement is strict

An honest but mistaken belief in consent is not a defence unless the accused took reasonable steps to confirm the complainant was consenting. The steps are judged on the circumstances known to the accused at the time (s. 273.2(b)). Assumptions and misread signals are not enough. The onus is on whoever is initiating activity to ensure ongoing, affirmative agreement. A belief that arose from the accused’s own intoxication, recklessness or wilful blindness is no defence either (s. 273.2(a)).

When the law says there was no consent

Section 273.1(2) lists situations in which no consent is obtained. They include where:

  • the agreement was expressed by someone other than the complainant;
  • the complainant was unconscious;
  • the complainant was incapable of consenting for any other reason;
  • the accused induced the activity by abusing a position of trust, power or authority;
  • the complainant expressed, by words or conduct, a lack of agreement; or
  • having consented, the complainant expressed, by words or conduct, a lack of agreement to continue.

The list is not exhaustive (s. 273.1(3)), and submission because of force, threats, fraud or the exercise of authority is not consent either (s. 265(3)). Whether one of these situations applies is a question of law for the judge (s. 273.1(1.2)).

Step 5 of 7

5) Build a Defence with Evidence — Not Just Your Word

Sexual assault cases are not simply credibility contests where a judge decides who to believe. A serious defence goes well beyond denial. It uses advanced legal tools to gather and present evidence that creates reasonable doubt.

Advanced Legal Tools

Accessing private records

Criminal Code ss. 278.1–278.38

A complainant's private records — diaries, counselling notes, messages to others — can sometimes contain material relevant to the defence. Getting access requires a formal court application to the trial judge, and it cannot be brought at a preliminary inquiry. Records held by someone else, such as a counsellor or a school, fall under ss. 278.11–278.19; records the Crown holds fall under ss. 278.2–278.28. The judge first decides whether to review the record, then whether any part of it goes to the defence. It is a complex, multi-stage process with strict tests. Simply saying a record exists, or that it may bear on credibility, is not enough. It is still often called a Mills application, after R v Mills, [1999] 3 SCR 668, which upheld the original version of the scheme. Done well, it can uncover evidence the Crown doesn't want the defence to have.

Records already in your possession are handled differently. If you intend to use a record containing the complainant’s private information — which can include some of your own messages with them — a judge must first rule it admissible under s. 278.29. That section replaced s. 278.92 in July 2026; the Supreme Court upheld the earlier version in R v J.J., 2022 SCC 28.

Challenging the complainant's narrative

Criminal Code s. 276

Section 276 of the Criminal Code restricts evidence of a complainant's sexual history. However, in specific, legally defined circumstances — such as providing an alternative explanation for physical evidence rather than attacking character — a skilled lawyer can bring an application to introduce it. This is among the most technically demanding applications in criminal practice. The application must be in writing with an affidavit and is normally filed at least 60 days before the hearing (s. 276.01), which is held without the jury or the public. The complainant may appear and make submissions but cannot be compelled to testify at it (s. 276.02).

Expert evidence

Toxicology and memory

A toxicologist can explain how alcohol affects memory and behaviour, challenging the Crown's theory of impairment. A psychologist may provide evidence on memory reliability, particularly in cases where a complainant's account emerged or changed over time. Expert testimony educates the court and can directly undermine the prosecution's theory.

Step 6 of 7

6) Prepare for a Complex, Lengthy Process

Defending a sexual assault charge is a long process. Setting realistic expectations from the start is essential.

A typical case moves through five stages:

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  1. Initial arrest and bail hearing

    Release conditions in sexual assault cases commonly include no contact with the complainant. Bail hearings are where that begins.

  2. Disclosure

    Your lawyer receives and analyzes the Crown's evidence.

  3. Consideration of a preliminary inquiry

    Available only in limited cases after the 2019 Criminal Code amendments: the offence must carry 14 years or more (s. 535). For sexual assault under s. 271 that means only where the complainant was under 16; sexual assault with a weapon or causing bodily harm (s. 272) and aggravated sexual assault (s. 273) still qualify.

  4. Pre-trial motions

    Including applications to exclude evidence or access records.

  5. Trial

    And finally, a trial that may run for days or weeks.

The eligibility rules for a preliminary inquiry are so technical that the Ontario and Quebec Courts of Appeal issued conflicting rulings on how the 2019 change applied to cases that began around it. The Supreme Court of Canada took the question up in R v Archambault, 2024 SCC 35, in a divided decision; a majority on the interpretation point held that the accused must actually be liable to 14 years or more. For historical allegations, where the maximum sentence has changed since the date of the alleged offence, eligibility can still be contested — another reason experienced counsel is essential. Patience, resilience, and expert guidance are not optional.

Step 7 of 7

7) Know That "Credibility" Is Not the Same as "Reliability"

When a judge assesses a witness, it is not a gut decision about believability. The law distinguishes between two distinct concepts.

Credibility

Is the witness honest?

Credibility is about honesty — whether a witness is trying to tell the truth.

Reliability

Is the account accurate?

Reliability is about accuracy — whether their memory is correct. A witness can be entirely honest but still be wrong. A strong defence often focuses on reliability, pointing to inconsistencies or objective facts that suggest the complainant's account is mistaken — without accusing them of lying.

Myths and Stereotypes

Canadian courts are legally required to avoid outdated myths about how a sexual assault victim "should" behave. An experienced defence lawyer will object to any reasoning that relies on them. Common myths the law prohibits:

  • That a genuine victim will always fight back
  • That delay in reporting means the allegation is likely false
  • That a victim will always avoid their abuser afterward

Trauma responses vary widely. Courts have accepted that not fighting back, delayed reporting, and ongoing contact with an abuser are all consistent with an authentic account. A defence lawyer's role is to ensure the case is decided on evidence, not assumptions.

The same rule runs the other way: a complainant’s sexual history cannot be used to suggest they were more likely to consent or are less worthy of belief (Criminal Code s. 276(1)).

One further point: character evidence — a good reputation for honesty — has limited value in sexual assault cases that occur in private, because public reputation may say nothing about private conduct. Knowing this going in allows your lawyer to manage strategy and expectations accordingly.

Why hire Daniel Brown Law for a sexual assault defence

Daniel Brown Law is a leading Canadian criminal defence firm. Sexual offence cases are a core part of what our lawyers do, at trial and on appeal.

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Our founder, Daniel Brown, is the author of Prosecuting and Defending Sexual Offence Cases (3rd Edition, Emond Publishing's Criminal Law Series), has authored articles for legal journals, and contributes commentary on criminal law to The Toronto Star and other major Canadian news outlets.

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An Accusation Is Not a Conviction

Facing a sexual assault allegation is one of the most serious experiences a person can go through. The legal, personal, and financial stakes are substantial. But in Canada, the Crown bears the burden of proving guilt beyond a reasonable doubt — and the presumption of innocence holds from the moment charges are laid.

The seven steps here — silence, evidence preservation, retaining experienced defence counsel, understanding the law, building an evidence-driven defence, preparing for the long process, and understanding how credibility is assessed — are your immediate priorities. Experienced counsel changes outcomes. Acting without it, or with a lawyer who does not regularly defend these cases, carries real risk.

Sexual Assault Charges in Ontario — Frequently Asked Questions

Short answers to the questions people ask most in the first days after an accusation.

Before you are charged

Should I speak to police if I'm innocent?

No. Other than giving your name and date of birth, stay silent until you have legal advice. Even innocent mistakes can later be used to challenge your credibility.

What evidence should I preserve after an accusation?

Save voicemails, text messages, emails, call logs, and social media messages with the complainant. Do not delete anything; early preservation can be vital to your defence.

Can I contact the complainant?

No. Contact is typically prohibited by bail conditions and may damage your case. Speak to your lawyer immediately about any communication concerns.

The law

What is the legal definition of consent in Canada?

Consent is the complainant's voluntary agreement to the sexual activity. It must be present at the time the activity takes place. Silence or passivity is not consent. Incapacity — being unconscious, or so intoxicated that the person is incapable of consenting — eliminates consent.

Does consent given earlier still count if the person later passes out?

No. In R v J.A., 2011 SCC 28, the Supreme Court of Canada held that consent requires a conscious, operating mind throughout the activity. Agreement given in advance does not extend to sexual activity while the person is unconscious.

Can my lawyer get the complainant's counselling or other private records?

Sometimes, but only through a court application to the trial judge under the Criminal Code records provisions, which Parliament rebuilt in July 2026 (ss. 278.1–278.38). The judge decides first whether to look at the record, then whether any of it is produced to the defence. The tests are strict, and the application cannot be brought at a preliminary inquiry.

Will there be a preliminary inquiry in my sexual assault case?

Usually not. Since 2019 a preliminary inquiry is available only for offences punishable by 14 years or more (Criminal Code s. 535). Sexual assault under s. 271 carries 10 years, or 14 years where the complainant is under 16, so a preliminary inquiry is available only in that case. Sexual assault with a weapon or causing bodily harm, and aggravated sexual assault, still qualify.

Your lawyer and the outcome

How long do sexual assault cases take in Ontario?

Timelines vary, but expect months to more than a year, including disclosure, pre-trial motions, and trial. A specialist lawyer can help move the case efficiently while protecting your rights.

Do I need a specialist sexual assault lawyer?

Yes. Sexual offence law is technically complex. A specialist understands consent law, evidentiary restrictions, Charter applications, and the strategic use of expert evidence.

Can I represent myself and cross-examine the complainant?

Usually not personally. In a sexual offence case, if the prosecutor or the complainant applies, the judge must order that you not cross-examine the complainant yourself unless the proper administration of justice requires it, and a lawyer is appointed to conduct that cross-examination (Criminal Code s. 486.3(2)).

What are possible outcomes?

Outcomes include withdrawal or stay of charges, acquittal after trial, or resolution on agreed terms depending on the facts. Your lawyer will advise on the best strategy for your case.

Accused of sexual assault? Talk to Daniel Brown Law before you talk to police

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